Four Lessons From Being a “Secret Millionaire”

Some years ago I was asked to go undercover to be part of the television series – Secret Millionaire. I am still asked – ‘Did you enjoy the experience?’ ‘Enjoy’ no, did I find it challenging, confronting, and rewarding – absolutely. Now a few years on a can reflect on what I learned and what was the longer term impact of being part of the program

I am not an actor, or in the entertainment industry. I have had little to do with television. I did the program on the premise that it was a documentary on volunteering. I did not know where I was going, who I would meet, nor how I would get on. But yes, it was an experience of a life time. I was touched moved and inspired by so many people I met. Humbled by what volunteers contribute throughout Australia. My life is now different, I see things in a different way.

I met many people, not all of which were part of the final story. Every person I met added to the experience and the insight I now have, and will continue to share what I have learned with others.

The personal challenge of course was, ‘how much and to whom.? There were so very many people each with an equally worthy story.

I supported many people and organisations – and whilst I’m sad that some of the people in the story are no longer with us – what I did contribute has remained in use, and a legacy.

The money was given with love. But money can be divisive – why did you choose them and not the others, or why that amount? There is no ‘right’ in this – I just did my best, what I could see would make a difference, but more than any of that they know that I give my love, friendship and ongoing support.

Thank you for all the lovely emails, tweets and messages. But it is not ‘me’ it is ‘we’. Each of us can make a difference to others.

Even though the program was called – ‘Secret Millionaire’ it was not about the money – it was about creating relationships and listening.

What I learned is:

1. We all need a friend: Everyone has a story and every person needs to be heard – if we have a friend life is so much better
2. Money is not the answer: Whilst money is a facilitator it is not the answer – money can be destructive.
3. Volunteering is essential: Our community would not function without the billions of hours given by volunteers – We get so much when we give our time.
4. Anyone can do what I did: Anyone and everyone can give their time, listening and love to make a difference to others (you don’t have to have money to do it.)

Article by Naomi Simson